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PassengerNumerous607 OP t1_j1f7n5d wrote

Reply to comment by LessRemoved in TIFU by sleeping with a friend. And I mean just sleeping by PassengerNumerous607

I mean I’m over my ex in the way that I have closure and I no longer Pine for him like if he asked to get back together I wouldn’t even consider it, that’s saying a lot because I would take him back in a heartbeat a couple months ago. I have had sex a couple times with one person since the relationship and I’m definitely ready sexually to explore new people, however I am not over how my ex broke my trust and became a completely different person before ghosting me all together. The way I feel is this is the second time I Heartbreakers end it in a way that I was left extremely confused and devastated and they were the two closest relationships I’ve had, so if someone that I was able to love and trust more than anybody can betray me, then like it’s gonna take me a while to be able to trust again

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LessRemoved t1_j1fflh0 wrote

I hear what you say, thank you for being open and honest. When someone breaks trust towards/between two people it always has risidual effects.

I get the feeling that there's a little voice telling you it's your own fault, but it isn't. And youre fully ware that what one man does another very likely will not.

Don't let the bad experiences with your ex overshadow opportunitys of the here and now or tomorrow.

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