Illumini24 t1_j1d73g8 wrote on December 23, 2022 at 12:55 PM

Based on your story, you guys like each other, and just haven't realized it properly yet. You are really great friends and apparently have some physical connection as well, so I say go for it.

PassengerNumerous607 OP t1_j1dyh32 wrote on December 23, 2022 at 4:29 PM

Well I just recently had a bad breakup that he had to endure weeks of me bitching about, it could be misplaced feelings on my part

[deleted] t1_j1e6irl wrote on December 23, 2022 at 5:22 PM

Yeah all of us in the comments are rooting for y’all. If you guys aren’t touchy feely and ended up cuddling and enjoyed it, y’all like each other.

kgfan24 t1_j1fb3c0 wrote on December 23, 2022 at 10:05 PM

Whatever you choose with this guy, we all hope it works out! And like others said, you didn’t do anything wrong, you were there for a friend and two single people got a tiny tiny bit physical, totally okay. Might you have extra-curricular feelings for this person?

yumirow t1_j1faw1o wrote on December 23, 2022 at 10:04 PM

Lust isn't love. They sure like each others company, but I would still suggest for them to take their time if they feel like it

buwefy t1_j1g6nol wrote on December 24, 2022 at 2:18 AM

And so what, if it's misplaced feeling? all this superficial knowledge of psychology is ruining generations of people - just enjoy the moment and see what happens, seems you're both nice, respectful people, no need to always double guess everything :)

PassengerNumerous607 OP t1_j1gewfy wrote on December 24, 2022 at 3:28 AM

I would but I’m not ready for commitment and he’s not someone that will ever do anything casual, plus our work relationship and friendship is too valuable in my mind to risk things going sideways