This is so much NOT a fuck up on your part. As a parent I know we feel we are responsible for what our kids experience but, man, if you take a moment and ask her therapists about this I’m sure they will let you know that the mysteries of biology will trump experience in almost all cases.

Don’t forget to care for yourself. You know you need to be mentally healthy for your kids so do not feel you are selfish if you need to arrange for self-care time.

I’m glad you posted and wish you and your family well.

Come back some time and let us know of the great milestones you‘ve shepherded your kids though.

Take care!

🙂