Viewing a single comment thread. View all comments

ZergeNN t1_j1fbyxm wrote

Reply to comment by ferndeer in TIFU (update) by sleeping with my aunts ex by Sarcastic-pickle2

stop calling everything grooming

−13

ferndeer t1_j1feg48 wrote

"Grooming is a process of manipulation and trust-building that a perpetrator will use to create an atmosphere where they can exploit a child. Grooming is about making a child think that abuse and exploitation is normal."

There is no way that a family member almost twice the age of a likely highschooler can have a consensual sexual relationship with them. Also, your attitude towards grooming is complicit in its societal acceptance. Hopefully understanding it better will change your perspective.

10

ZergeNN t1_j1fllh8 wrote

she is 18 not a child, there was no abuse

−2

Conveyys t1_j1gawk8 wrote

she's in highschool still dude and from the sounds of things, this dude knew her since she was a minor

5

shadefeuer t1_j1fszqc wrote

If you're calling 18 not a child it's fairly obvious how old you are. As stated above by the other user, 21 myself and wouldn't touch an 18 year old with a 10 foot pole. You're fucked if you think dating a girl still in highschool as a full grown adult damn near double her age isn't a problem.

4

ZergeNN t1_j1gj3ja wrote

i doesnt said its not wierd but its definitly not grooming , and nobody gives a fuck if you would or wouldnt touch a 18 years old with a 10 foot pole

0