Went through the comment section first just to make sure my first thought wasn’t only me. But Grindr is known for being a straight up hookup app. My roommate is a gay man and he’s explained it to me a little bit.

from what I’ve seen between him and all my other gay friends, a lot of the interactions are straight up like meet up get some head or give head. Or maybe dinner and fuck. But that app, most the people on there are straight to the point.