lollipopfiend123 t1_j2cfskm wrote on December 31, 2022 at 5:22 AM

Reply to comment by grizzly-kim in TIFU by going on a Grindr date by FoldPsychological589

The real mvp right here

kn1ghtcliffe t1_j2clawl wrote on December 31, 2022 at 6:17 AM

Yeah, there's got to be dating apps for OP but Grindr is notorious for being for hookups. It makes tinder look like a marriage app by comparison.

Josquius t1_j2d72bj wrote on December 31, 2022 at 11:00 AM

Tinder is that though right?

It's almost cliche the number of people sign up for easy sex... Get none of that. End up meeting the woman they marry.

Ruin1980 t1_j2drsj9 wrote on December 31, 2022 at 2:42 PM

Neh

kn1ghtcliffe t1_j2edxv0 wrote on December 31, 2022 at 5:21 PM

Yeah I've heard those kinds of stories but I've never actually met anyone who had that story. I think it may be clever background marketing by tinder to draw more people into their app.

Josquius t1_j2egthn wrote on December 31, 2022 at 5:40 PM

Well. Hi.

I went out with a few girls I met on tinder. Though only one could be set to have been pure hook up and that it.

Eventually matched with my partner on there - though tinder being tinder we didn't even meet and ran into each other completely independently.

A tonne of people I know have similar stories. Most people who met their SO after 25 or so actually.

kn1ghtcliffe t1_j2ehu3t wrote on December 31, 2022 at 5:47 PM

Tbf I did end up meeting a girl I could have seen myself ending up with but she had commitment issues that made that impossible.

I was looking for something more serious, she said she was just looking for something casual. She kept telling me I should keep seeing other people, like repeatedly telling me. I kept saying no until after a couple months of her saying this I gave in and did so. Then she got jealous and upset that I was doing exactly what she had been telling me to do for months. Then she denied ever doing so. 🙄 Oh well, the sex was great while it lasted and I eventually learned that she wanted kids while I seriously do not and that it wouldn't have worked out anyways.