Fuck her she cheated lol

You read my previous posts? Yeah... But she is still hot

Her personality makes her ugly.

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Yeah, goddamit, I now know better i hope. But she seemed more mature than before, and nicer

Yeah yeah, I've been seeing people since we broke up, but it's like empty sex, no fun

She can't have sex? But she'll have sex with you?... what?

Yeah, she can with me because she is already comfortable and we know each other. It was difficult at the start because she had mental breakdowns, until she was comfortable enough to do it. It was also erasmus, so easier to do this things

Bro. Cheaters never change. Or it is extremely hard to, like the tiger and his stripes. Don't be stupid ah

Young and horny makes me stupid, fuck, you are right

Dude, just hire a prostitute.

The problem is not having sex, I've had sex with other women during this year, the thing is that with her is different and more special

man you're brave for texting your ex merry Christmas considering your history with her. I think what'll be hardest for you to realize is that she doesn't seem to care for your emotions and you've got to accept that you won't be able to change that about her. Let yourself enjoy sex with her if she's willing to meet up, but only if you can remember that she doesn't want anything more. Otherwise, your next best option may be to find friends that'll scold you for going back and talking to your ex 😅

Yeah, you are right. I would be able to enjoy and have sex and accept later to move on. But I know it's going to be a pain to do it, and will hurt myself trying. I'm better leaving that chance for another dude/day and safe that mental pain for someone who deserves it more.

Bullet dodged.

Hey you’ll grow out of it. Try to take ur own advice and reduce screen time. When i’m depressed it makes the overthinking worse. Get a nice, stress relieving hobby that has no link to technology. That way you’ll prob text her less too

Oh gotcha.

Well yeah from the other comment about her cheating I'd say you should move on.

I've been in your shoes before so I know it's tough. But it's for the best for sure.

It's for the best for sure, i need to

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well atleast you have sex i am still a virgin :)

So suck it tf up and lie. Tell her you aren’t looking for anything serious and that’s why you texted her on Christmas. Tell her you were worried she would think you were a creep if you said you just wanted to hook up though.

No one wants to look like they’re looking for commitment and no one is willing to be up front with their intentions. Is it silly? Yes, but it’s just how people want to be seen as. Idk.

But get laid, satisfy her and maybe she’ll change her mind. You never know if you don’t try. Straight women are weird like that.

Oh, nevermind.

She just wants to hit it, and if that’s not what you want then don’t.

I've seen now three of your comments, with three different opinions, which one is it? XD

I think you should play your cards right and give her what she wants, cause that’s at least part of what you want and then get over it remembering that it doesn’t matter if you had sex.

I dont think its a good idea. It took me one year to more or less not think about her everyday. She cheated on me during the small three month relationship, and to hook up we need to plan it (she lives far enough) i know that at one point or another we will meet again (common friends) so i will probably use that time, if I still want to hook up, to do it. If I did it now with those conditions it would only fuck me over more, and make it too hard for anything further to happen. Even harder for me to move on.

She has something that makes it way harder for me to move, it's actually my first love so it's not easy for me to move on from everything that was so important

Well damn. Good luck!

Thanks!

Srry, not three year, three month XD