Never should've gone to your ex. But, unless u got an STD or her pregnant, u shouldn't have told your current partner. Don't make her feel bad so you can feel better. You fucked up. Live with the guilt and shame.

Everyone thinks you should come clean, you only come clean if it has altering consequences. Like a child or std. You're a POS for doing it, you should have to live with it. Instead you unloaded ur shit on them, and you feel better for coming clean, and now they feel like shit.