It’s super sus that you guys “watched a tv show” by yourselves until 1am without texting anyone back, even your significant others. It’s kinda disrespectful to both your relationships as well, even more so with the fact that you guys dated at one point.

It’s not like you watched porn together. Or did you?

Anyways, let me say that L is a controlling asshole because he “decided” who P can talk with, like she is his property. Also, how does D feel about this?

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Nah, I’m profoundly secure in my relationship because I know my fiancé wouldn’t hang out with an ex by themselves without texting me back for the entire night, she knows it would be straight disrespectful to the relationship. Sorry you’ve never been in a respectable relationship🤷🏻‍♂️

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Sure man, believe what you want, I don’t give a fuck

nah, in bird culture this is also a dick move

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"Dated for a while" "Broke up after two weeks" lmao

So, P is now single again, then?

Look, you’re pretty young, so there are lots of ambiguous social situations to navigate in life such as this. Keep in mind that it’s always good to keep the feelings of your significant other in mind when you make decisions to hang out with someone. Trust goes a long way. And making choices that doesn’t break that trust goes a long way too. Also, it’s good to remember that you can’t control other people’s thoughts, feelings, words, or actions. That goes both ways, they can’t control you either. People who try to control you, such saying things like you’re not allowed to talk to them anymore, do not understand healthy relationships, and therefore cannot form a heathy relationship with you.

she's autistic an the show is a big hyperfixation for her so we did just kinda watch it for hours. We only realised the time when we did check our phones. an my partner knew it was happening and was okay with it.

I mean I've been dating her for almost 3 years and L and P have been together likes two years or something so she trusted us to not do something like that cos yknow we value our relationships

In all honesty, i can see where L is coming from just because you guys did date before, even if it was only 2 weeks. At the same time though I do feel like they’re coming from a place of insecurity and lack of trust with their s/o. This situation says a lot more about their relationship and its problems than it does anything else.