I think that if she's going to put out mixed signals and invite someone to sleep with them, she should communicate as well. The first time could have been avoided on either party. He shouldn't have been drunk, she should have set expectations before. The second time 100% was him getting rapey. I clearly stated this. He might have genuinely thought that she was into him. Who knows,we have a one sided story and I doubt it went down as he claims and it was most likely much worse...again though, read my comment. I just said that with no communication and her saying that she really wanted to see him and inviting him over to sleep then doing a makeshift king-size bed to share, I can understand a scenario where it was an honest mistake. Add in that she might have been okay with other things like breast play. You're assuming more than what was given in the story. I am not.