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ButterscotchTrick886 t1_j1pr7vy wrote

While what you did was obviously wrong, you need to come up with steps to move forward. You need to apologize to Becky and accept that she may or may not accept your apology. You need to seek help to ensure this does not happen again. Also this is just my opinion, but maybe quit drinking?

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Melodic-Spite-5918 OP t1_j1ps3h5 wrote

I wanted to apologize to her but she did not want to hear an apology. She said to leave her alone so I did. While she hasn't blocked me anywhere, I am pretty sure she trusts me to just not text her and she has deleted me from various social media platforms, probably so that she doesn't have to see my name anymore which is understandable. As suggested in another comment, I will in due time prepare a formal and in-depth apology where I plan to detail what exactly I am sorry for (so as to make clear that I understand all of the mistakes that led to this) and where I will reassure here that she only has to read it if she some day decides to and that the apology letter does not mean that she will have to hear from me again. Stopping drinking is definitely something I will attempt and I have been thinking about other ways to move forward and better myself.

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Training-Throatt t1_j1qjfby wrote

>will in due time prepare a formal and in-depth apology where I plan to detail what exactly I am sorry for

Maybe actually leave her the fuck alone. Victims of sexual assault don't like to hear from the people who assault them. You'd only be apologizing to make yourself feel better. There's a reason why she doesn't want to hear your apology and that's because she doesn't want to have to make you feel better for being a predator. Leave her ALONE

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