It took

• lying* on her bed screaming that I was hurting her, the neighbors should call the cops, flipping me off, and reminding me "Who do you think they'll believe" while I was several feet away from her
• switching from throwing plastic gatorade bottles to insulated water bottles

to get me to go from "maybe I can ride out the lease" to "no" - I found and moved into my current place inside of five days