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BleedingTeal t1_ixivjil wrote

There is nothing wrong with wanting to try and help others to see things about themselves or their lives that they don’t see. But:

  1. it isn’t your responsibility to be that person for other people

  2. you can’t help those who refuse to help themselves

  3. protecting yourself and protecting your heart from people who are reckless & careless with it is always a good decision

  4. having your own boundaries on how it is you will be treated by others of the best form of self care there is

Do not beat yourself up for the mistakes of your past. Instead learn from them, grow because of them, and become the best version of yourself you can. There is a path from where you are now to a place where you are unimaginably happy with a loving and supportive partner. It is up to you to do the work to move past where you are now and to find that path.

I wish you luck, OP.

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