cmori3 t1_ixaej7o wrote
Reply to comment by Impulsive94 in Tifu by ruining my relationship and a special night by Freerz
Jesus, us guys need to get better at reading red flags. Her friend drugs you to try and break you up and she is trying to decide if she should do it or not.
Even when she realized that you were drugged and something was not right, she sticks to her guns "maybe we should break up"... Right after her criminal friend fkn drugged you. It was completely her fault but you were made to suffer.
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Seems like such a common issue with women, where they think very positively of themselves morally and this allows them to act in the most heinous ways towards people who are close to them. As guys we probably need some situations like this to identify if we have a good partner. It's not enough to look at their positive aspects, we have to see them in a situation where they feel justified in being the worst version of themselves.
Impulsive94 t1_ixaj93s wrote
That's not a healthy attitude to have man. Can't go through life thinking about all the worst case scenarios and it's not fair to tar every woman with the same brush because of one experience.
Yes something shitty happened to me but you have to look at it from both sides. She just thought I was drunk and trying it on with her close friend in front of her. I didn't and don't blame her for thinking the worst, but we spoke about it and she listened to me. That's what matters.
cmori3 t1_iy2n7o9 wrote
Well I'm talking about avoiding these horrible experiences that come from trusting women who are not trustworthy. I think when this woman was so ready to blame you for her friend drugging you, that should have been a sign for you to end the relationship. You can say you disagree but it's a difficult case to make because the relationship ended with her cheating. Like she nearly did when her friend drugged you.
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