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Freerz OP t1_ix8q53v wrote

Reply to comment by Impulsive94 in Tifu by ruining my relationship and a special night by Freerz

Thanks for the insight. Sorry you went through that!

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Impulsive94 t1_ix96xeb wrote

It's all good! Really shit at the time & took me a couple months to fully understand it but realised it was never my fault, nor something I really had control over. You were in a similar position from the sounds of it, so don't blame yourself or for any of the fallout that comes from it.

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cmori3 t1_ixaerbz wrote

One thing to keep in mind from his comment, girl in question acted exactly like yours. Even though it "worked out" (she believed him) she still cheated on him years later. The fact that your girlfriend is acting the same suggests she will do this too. Please keep it in mind.

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NiceIsNine t1_ixc0oxr wrote

Years later is enough time to change completely, hell I would say a month is enough to change a person completely, especially that it happened during lockdown and people can play with your mind, so no, the fact that the girlfriend acted the same suggests nothing.

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