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SeaTale6353 t1_ixwujl4 wrote

Reply to comment by Ozwentdeaf in TIFU by getting really drunk and losing all my friends by [deleted]

I had the same thing happen to me, luckily I kept most of the friends due to them being understanding, but I heavily regulate my drinking to only drinks that work from me so I never really get more than tipsy.

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Ozwentdeaf t1_ixwuq90 wrote

Im glad to hear you kept yours.

Maybe mine will be ok, but it will never be the same again will it?

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Falconflyer75 t1_ixxknrk wrote

Think about sand in a glass of water, with enough time it settles to the bottom and you forget it’s there, and the water is clear

but if u shake the glass then it becomes just as dirty as it once was

If u can convince your friends to give you another chance then eventually things can settle but if you screw up again it’ll be worse

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SeaTale6353 t1_ixwv15r wrote

Something slightly changes, but in time things will reach a new normal that everyone's comfortable with, you can't change the past but by apologising and being more organised in the future it'll be ok, and you'll reach a sort of inner peace about it that's usually matched by your friends :)

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