Plenty_Intention1991 t1_iwas3oe wrote
Wait though... were talking about consensual sex right? I don’t see why that makes OP the bad guy like some people are saying. Based on what you said you didn’t actively sabotage his relationship with the ex and only you know if you did anything predatory but you didn’t say that you did. As a straight man I’ve gotten drunk af with best friends after breaks ups and one thing never led to another. Sure as far as I know my friends aren’t gay but even if they were I wouldn’t end up f-ing them the day after a break up.
Am I missing something?
threequartertoupee t1_iwaxu1q wrote
You go to a close friend for emotional support, you don't expect them to take advantage of your vulnerability.
OP has been (I suspect deliberately) vague on how 'one thing led to another'.
Plenty_Intention1991 t1_iwb0lb1 wrote
Yeah there are still some big question marks there. I guess my point though is that if the story we heard is true and if we gave OP the benefit of the doubt then maybe homeboy wasn’t as straight as we were lead to believe. According to OP is was straight guys idea to drink with him. Maybe it just went further than he expected and now his form of denial is to attack OP. I’m thinking about this situation too much for having to stake in it lol. I just can’t wrap my head around “accidentally” having sex with a male friend.
threequartertoupee t1_iwb4aob wrote
I don't think sexual preference really comes into it. As a guy, I wouldn't go hook up with a female friend after she'd broken up with a partner and reached out for support.
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