Okay if you can text you are likely not lying in a ditch. Maybe this checking in when you leave work and when you arrive home is a bit too under the microscope. People work in dangerous jobs and don’t feel the need to constantly contact their SO. You can stop for groceries, get a drink or visit a friend on the way home without checking in with your SO. I don’t think it’s healthy to feel the need to account for every minute. This is going to get old.