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UnadvertisedAndroid t1_ix02qhs wrote

These stories always piss me off because the asshole who walked in without waiting to be invited is always the one at fault, yet never takes the blame. Your aunt is a busybody that deserved to see that for being so nosy.

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harleyspoison267 t1_ix0rgij wrote

Both during HS and when I moved back in temporarily as an adult after an injury, my mother would knock on the door as she was opening it. She had the gall to complain a time or two about me being naked (i like to sleep naked and big boobs make finding lounge clothes difficult). I told her I WOULD be clothed if i was expecting COMPANY! My lil sib says she still pull this shit now. So ridiculous.

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JeffroCakes t1_ix1ba01 wrote

Some parents don’t know how to transition from a parent/child relationship to an adult/adult one. It’s kinda pathetic.

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harleyspoison267 t1_ix1f5vj wrote

Yeah, it's been tough. I'm 26 now and engaged and raising my step kids so it's frustrating.

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ExcessiveGravitas t1_ix35fsu wrote

We’ve been knocking and waiting at our son’s door since he was about seven. It’s not about the offspring being adult, it’s about them being human.

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mightyneonfraa t1_ix0u4bh wrote

She's not a busybody. She didn't know they were together in the first place and OP was the one with the bright idea to fuck at her grandparent's house during a family get-together.

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JeffroCakes t1_ix1bl1i wrote

Seems like you think it’s acceptable to go barging into a bedroom when the door is closed. In which case, you need to learn about boundaries.

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mightyneonfraa t1_ix1s1rj wrote

I think the person who decides to have sex in somebody else's house needs to worry about boundaries. Especially her grandparents.

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Vega5529 t1_ix29i5e wrote

How tf are you getting downvoted? Who goes to someone else's house for a party, fucks off upstairs and has sex while everyone is still here. Like maybe if you were in college or something buts it's literally a family house filled with family members

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mightyneonfraa t1_ix2bxej wrote

Dunno. My best guess is people read the aunt being "traditional" and decided she must be a monster even though sneaking off to fuck in somebody else's home is weird and disrespectful and no reasonable person would expect to find you doing it. Especially when they don't know you're with your significant other and especially when it's family.

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JeffroCakes t1_ix1vu04 wrote

Did you not see it’s where she used to routinely stay? It’s not like it was a stranger’s house. Depending on how her family operates, her grandparents’ house may have been like a second home to her. It’s not unheard of for grandparents to play a parental role from time to time.

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mightyneonfraa t1_ix1wmo1 wrote

I used to actually live at my grandfather's. As in, it was my actual home for awhile. I still wouldn't go back to my old room there to sleep with my girlfriend at Christmas or whatever.

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Jacob309 t1_ix28sik wrote

I agree with ya a family party in a house you used to stay at is not the best time to have sex. If it was their current place sure the aunt us at fault party or not.

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ProbablyNotADuck t1_ix2y03f wrote

Maybe that also used to be her aunt's room, and her aunt didn't feel the need to knock either. Presumably, her aunt once lived there. My niece sleeps in my old bedroom when she stays at my parents' house. The door is routinely kept closed. I wouldn't think to knock before entering.

The reality is that a family get-together is not the place to bang your partner... especially not when there isn't even a lock on the door, and then amplified even more when you're intentionally making sure that no one knows you're actually together.

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UnadvertisedAndroid t1_ix1pa72 wrote

You never walk into another person's bedroom, unless you've been specifically invited, when the fucking door is closed. This is common courtesy and respect.

ETA: Especially in a house you don't own. Holy fuck was her aunt entirely wrong. Had her GMa walked in, you could say "well, at least it's her house'. Doesn't make it right, but it's at least her house. Aunt had no business walking in. None.

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mightyneonfraa t1_ix1rxuc wrote

I agree with you if OP was in her own home which she wasn't. She was at her grandparent's and was in the room she used to stay in. She was at somebody else's house during a family gathering. Aunt had no reason to assume she'd be having sex at the time because who does that at their grandparents' place?

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BigBoiBrynBoi t1_ix2vp5i wrote

A lot of debate about the ethics behind this, relax they didn't fuck in your bedroom

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