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cannabis_breath t1_iya295d wrote

Tell your friend ASAP! Waiting is just going to make it worse. Be honest about how it was a mistake for everyone involved. Alcohol is a bitch.

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[deleted] OP t1_iya41iq wrote

But I could ruin our friendship, his marriage, and what if she claims I raped her. I’m fucking terrified

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cannabis_breath t1_iya709u wrote

Give your friend an opportunity to forgive you. Frame it as a mistake which it was. Connect with the woman b4 get written /recorded consent that it wasn’t rape by talking about how drunk you all were etc etc.

Or just live with the fact that your buddy is raising your child lol.

Sowed seeds and all that.

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JimmiRustle t1_iya5c2k wrote

Oh because a friendship based on lies is so effin great. I’d get that off my chest so fast.

She can claim that but it’s pretty fucking hard if she doesn’t remember and you’re the one to be up front about it first.

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