Well, trust me that's not the case, i was being put on a pedestal which was just cringy for me, that's not something I'd prefer happen to me. But idk something just kept telling me that i could handle it, and technically her mother knew about it, she actually contacted me a couple days later saying how we've been talking quite a lot these days and i said yes, and she said she's too young for dating yet nd i totally agreed to her. While i was talking she didn't tell me about her daughter's crush even though the daughter told me she told her mom, so there was not much i could do is she herself wouldn't outright talk to me at that time, but i did advise her to talk to her daughter about holding out in this stuff for a while until she's a little older and her studies are much easier to handle.