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ByakuyaKuchiki6th t1_iuduouf wrote

How exactly were you supposed to stop the rumor if it was already in place? Unless you actively participated in spreading it, I'd say you dodged a bullet losing her if she just assumed you did without talking to you about it.

Also, your other friend is probably not a very good person, you should think about your relationship with them too.

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Impossible_Tale_2173 t1_iudutk3 wrote

We have spoken about it, she just does not believe that I was not active in spreading it

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ByakuyaKuchiki6th t1_iudv1ky wrote

If she's just mad and needs time then sure, people sometimes can't control their feelings.

But if she doesn't take your word for it and you've always been good to her, move on. She's not worth it.

You're still young, learn this early.

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[deleted] OP t1_iuer657 wrote

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Ahielia t1_iues0mc wrote

>She basically had her reputation ruined in school

Because she supposedly *gasp* had sex with a man? OH THE HUMANITY, SAY IT AIN'T SO!

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RandymMartel54 t1_iuesn2j wrote

I don't know if this is news to you, but not everybody enjoys broadcasting their sexual history to the world.

Especially if it's not even true.

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other_usernames_gone t1_iuevsww wrote

Except it isn't her sexual history.

It's an awkward rumor but her reputation is hardly ruined.

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dirtybrownwt t1_iuesghf wrote

Her reputation ruined??????? They’re 19, people bang in college you know. I mean not you, but people do.

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AndreLeo t1_iuf0tbj wrote

I laughed wayy to hard over this comment. Unfortunately it seems people really have a hard time understanding that. I swear I see posts like „tifu by my parents finding out my gf and I copulated “ (idk if reddit censors or deletes comments explicitly on that, hence the weird wording) where the plot is essentially like: boyfriend stays with gf in one of their parent‘s house, copulate, forget to hide the contraceptives. Parents find out and are mad or disappointed at their children and „have a talk“ and/or forbid them to stay at their house together.

Like wtf do you think college boys and girls are doing being together for half a year or longer at your house sleeping in the same bed? The only thing surprising here is how douchy the parents act. Like it’s 2022 we can stop this whole „no copulation until married“, „bodycount“ and innocence nonsense.

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dirtybrownwt t1_iug9bma wrote

“Everyone at university will know I’m doing the nasty! Oh no! Life ruined!” Comments definitely written by a child lol

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zzzorba t1_iuf825l wrote

Not actively quashing it is just as bad

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Impossible_Tale_2173 t1_iuf9q2a wrote

I tell people when it comes up and I’m there, but I can’t quash it when I’m not there, and yes I should have told her, but other than that I feel I did what I could

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Ahielia t1_iuerubq wrote

Move on, if she doesn't believe you then that's her loss.

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