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Impossible_Tale_2173 t1_iudumz5 wrote

Reply to comment by Icy_Engine_7648 in TIFU by losing a friend by [deleted]

I know that now, I’m just devastated it took this to find out

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goatvenom t1_iuemzf0 wrote

You should have made every effort to make sure that rumor never made it far, thus discrediting him or going to an adult.

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parksandrecpup t1_iuenwju wrote

19 is an adult. What “adult” should they be going to? OP is absolutely old enough to have said something, and instead decided that it was perfectly fine for everyone to be talking about this girl behind her back.

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goatvenom t1_iueqngp wrote

I was saying he needed an adult due the fact he handled shit like a child. Yeah he may be 19 but he acts like a 12 year old when it comes to conflict and resolution. It was a call out of his behavior and instead he let a A "friend" talk shit about him and the girl he liked. Now if I were in her position I would evaluate at very least his constitution and the way he handles conflict and how he may resolve this. Definitely should be a flag for the girl on how he handles this from here. Knowing he had every chance to get on top of this rumor.

Edited my bed spelling

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koliat t1_iueo7yq wrote

19 is a teenager who thinks they are adult. This continues until they are like 25yo or something

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Impossible_Tale_2173 t1_iuen7e8 wrote

Looking back you’re completely right, I was just stupid and naïve to think that nothing would come of it

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goatvenom t1_iuerc9h wrote

Hope you take that a a small life lesson, always protect your image and reputation. With out those you will not go far. I am no expert but what people say about you is taken more of a fact than anything because people will avoid conflict and assume. Also people that talk any degree of shit about you or spread rumors definitely are not your friends.

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