Limp_Will16 t1_iubpcko wrote on October 30, 2022 at 2:32 AM

What age are y’all? Cause autism or not, this sounds like jr high drama.

We had to take our daughter to the hospital and the X-ray tech was… fine. Like… FIIIIIINE. Holy cow. This was years ago, and I’m still fan-girling over him.

I told my husband me and the tech would make beautiful babies.

What did my husband do? Laugh and agree!

And my husband is autistic. So not sure that I see how that has anything to do with anything here.

sleepyreddits t1_iucibbe wrote on October 30, 2022 at 8:03 AM

Man. Saying someone is attractive and laughing it off is one thing but this is just strange. But aight you do you I suppose

CoffeeOk5402 OP t1_iubrmzh wrote on October 30, 2022 at 2:53 AM

we're young adults, He just has borderline personality disorder so its scary for him.

Newbootgoofin99 t1_iufl5jl wrote on October 30, 2022 at 11:10 PM

That’s pretty relevant to your situation here. I work in mental health, and I’m sure you’re likely already aware of this but- this sort of thing is very common with BPD, and is actually on the tamer end of what partners of pwBPD tend to go through.

It’s clear you really care about him so I won’t start with any “run for the hills” stuff, but I recommend seeking resources for people in your position. There’s a subbreddit for partners of pwBPD I’ve heard is helpful. Best of luck to you both.