Yeah, this was a FU. I got married to my wife at 20 and we had been together for five years by that point and known each other our whole lives. And even with that background, it was still really rough some days. Our families and friends knew and we had talked about it for awhile beforehand.

I'm sorry to tell you this, but I think your family was right. I don't doubt your feelings, but you did not have a strong base of trust nor truly know the other person. Those are critical for a marriage. I'm sorry that it is falling apart. Maybe things will work out, I can't say. But marriage is like a contract, it is not to be entered into lightly and you should only do it when you are thoroughly thought about it.

Good luck to your and your husband, whatever the future may bring