OP no offense, but you're delusional as hell and clearly aren't listening to other commenters in this thread. You've trapped your husband in a sham marriage because you're pregnant with another man's child (an ex) and are relying on your husband to help you raise said child after initially lying to him. You are young, and foolish. Please get therapy for both you and your husband and try and salvage this wreck before you inevitably bring an innocent child into this clusterfuck of a situation.