hersheymunk OP t1_it9byka wrote on October 21, 2022 at 9:50 PM

i don’t get why some of you are saying our parents are right. his parents are working on a divorce because his dad cheated. my parents don’t even love each other. they know nothing about love. they’ve never experienced real love. of course they are going to be jealous that someone else close to them is getting the love that they never got.

hanatsun t1_it9fnz7 wrote on October 21, 2022 at 10:17 PM

OP no offense, but you're delusional as hell and clearly aren't listening to other commenters in this thread. You've trapped your husband in a sham marriage because you're pregnant with another man's child (an ex) and are relying on your husband to help you raise said child after initially lying to him. You are young, and foolish. Please get therapy for both you and your husband and try and salvage this wreck before you inevitably bring an innocent child into this clusterfuck of a situation.

hersheymunk OP t1_it9fz89 wrote on October 21, 2022 at 10:20 PM

i gave my child up for adoption.

SorryAd1116 t1_itak3k5 wrote on October 22, 2022 at 3:52 AM

At least you did one good thing. Now if you want to go all star divorce this poor guy and try working on yourself.

thewhothewhatthewhy t1_it9e39n wrote on October 21, 2022 at 10:06 PM

Because

You're both young
At least one of you is still going through education
You're both unlikely to support yourselves
You've lied to your partner

To say that your parents are jealous is a very weird statement, because at one point they loved each other and had you. So to say that they know nothing about love when you yourself had just been married recently is a hypocritical statement to make.

You have a very skewed perception because your parents have more experience and knowledge than you who has been married for less than a year and had a kid at 18-19.

You're not prepared, and the fact that you lied to your husband because you wanted love and support shows how unprepared you are. And shows how right your parents were.

Freakeh420 t1_it9e6nt wrote on October 21, 2022 at 10:06 PM

maybe for the fact that they actually have experience in a relationship MAYBE??

or the fact that theyve were your age before. maybe cause theyre going through a divorce currently. like are you even listening or reading what you're saying OP.

You still have a very immature idea of what a relationship is.

that's just one reason why everyone is saying they're right... now all the reason and little drama things you included in your actual post might be other reasons why we're saying they're right.

and not to mention your comments kinda speak for themselves.

good luck OP, you're absolutely right... everyone must be jealous of your failing relationship full of lies and deceit. its not like they're actually thinking of your future, or thinking of your best interest. like why would they. Jesus Christ kid.

eb331 t1_it9jfju wrote on October 21, 2022 at 10:47 PM

100% believe your parents know a lot about love.

microbiologyismylife t1_itcmu8b wrote on October 22, 2022 at 4:55 PM

> they know nothing about love. they’ve never experienced real love.

News flash: you know nothing about love either. You lied to your husband, baby trapped and married him under false pretenses - THAT'S NOT LOVE!

Nervous-Tadpole-3871 t1_itdl5g4 wrote on October 22, 2022 at 8:51 PM

“Love” isn’t some forever thing you think it is. You will not always be “in love” with your partner, nor will they always be in love with you. Relationships are WORK. The person you are “in love” with isn’t the same person you’ll be married to in a year. People change, and because of that, sometimes they become incompatible. That doesn’t make your parents wrong. Your view on relationships is unrealistic and naive. The fairy tale image you have of love doesn’t exist. What they mean by you being “too young” is that you have no idea what kind of people you will become. Your brain isn’t even developed yet.