So divorce. They were 100% right. just because your marriage isnt working now, doesnt mean itll be an end to the relationship.

why do you have to be married now?

what are your overall plans as a couple?

what are your individual plans for that matter. im curious to what you think you want to happen from this point on.

are you guys gonna move in together? have you even lived together?

tbh i think you just need to pump the breaks and chill tf out. live life. get a job, think about going to college and actually preparing a future.

if shit goes sideways you need to make sure you'll able to take care of yourself. this should be the number one priority, having to depend on a partner in a failing relationship is not what you want to be doing.

you're still plenty young and have soooooo so much to learn. it wouldnt hurt actually going through a few relationships, that way you can learn what you want from one and what you dont want.

not everyone has their shit together. and if your family truly cares about you, i suggest actually valuing their opinions. they tried to warn you about this.

Hope it all works out OP.