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MARTIEZ t1_it93xzn wrote

Reply to comment by spider-bro in TIFU by wanting to cuddle with my friend [update] by Educational_Glass_47

why make mistakes that you already know to avoid?

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spider-bro t1_it95w1q wrote

OP doesn't know if this is a mistake or not. Comment OP is confusing "risk aversion" for "maturity" here.

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One_Waltz t1_it9kuea wrote

Idk… they did say in their post they realized it was mostly pressure from other people.

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spider-bro t1_it9ucqf wrote

You may be right actually. From her original post:

> I proceeded to think about it all night and have come to the conclusion I have feelings for him.

Thinking all night is not a very good way to detect feelings.

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SylvanGenesis t1_itwxe6a wrote

In fairness she also is neurodivergent, so sometimes this is actually the best way to detect feelings because you wouldn't be sure otherwise

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