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Whatislife287 t1_isg13u4 wrote

Reply to comment by Squigglepig52 in TIFU by opting out of having a shower with my girl who’s on her 🩸… by Miser-Mike

It’s all about communication. He could have expressed that he didn’t want to have sex or take a mutual shower , but instead he made a big deal about a natural bodily function that you cannot control or get rid of and made someone he’s supposed to love feel like shit. He literally said this in his post.

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Squigglepig52 t1_isg2l56 wrote

He literally said "nah", which is a clear refusal.

Then, she came out angry, and claimed it was because of her period - and he literally told her it wasn't the issue.

He didn't actually tell her he didn't want to stand in bloody water, he had a mental image of it. So, he actually did the opposite of making a big deal, he actually said it's not the issue.

It's amazing the contortions you'll do to make this his fault, as opposed to just saying "Dude, she's on her period and cranky. Do what she asks or she'll get pissy"

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Whatislife287 t1_isg5e5j wrote

Tell me you don’t know how women work without telling me you don’t know how women work😂 you literally just said she’ll get pissy because of her period and to just go along with what she wants lol - because that’s healthy

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Squigglepig52 t1_isgmd1r wrote

You should probably learn to read a bit better.

I said that what it seems like you really want to say to the OP. Cater to her because she's on her period.

I never said it's healthy, but it's the only way the OP wasn't going to get shit on in this exchange.

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redwolf587 t1_ishewl6 wrote

If that was the case the title of this TIFU would be "my girlfriend MISUNDERSTOOD why I didn't want to take a shower " not use a lame emoji to reference periods. He's immature.

He's made it clear in this post that he's grossed out (or uneducated) by it.

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