benzillaaaa t1_jclfnx4 wrote on March 17, 2023 at 6:03 PM

Reply to comment by rrickitickitavi in TIFU by keeping an addiction a secret from my partner. by Time_Mail_9564

This is just so false wtf. People can have different tastes and hobbies. I play video games and my partner doesn't, we have somewhat varying tastes in music. I play sports and she doesn't. She has different tastes in media (films/tv/social media) but that makes me see and do things I normally wouldn't and that's okay. You don't have to have the same habits and tastes as your partner (we have been happily together for 3 years). Non-weed people need to he with other non-weed people is fucking nonsense. This relationship isn't doomed and saying that to an 18 year old is misleading, misguided and irresponsible. OP do not listen to this dingle.

rrickitickitavi t1_jclh74o wrote on March 17, 2023 at 6:13 PM

OP doesn’t smoke occasionally. They smoke daily. No partner who doesn’t smoke at all is ever going to be fine with that. It’s nothing like the hobbies you mention.

benzillaaaa t1_jclhzjh wrote on March 17, 2023 at 6:18 PM

Idk where you get this notion from lol you're probably young. I know tons of adult couples where one is a stoner and the other is not. For reference I don't smoke anymore and my partner does and I could not care less about their habit. Saying stuff like never and can't or won't just shows how narrowminded this viewpoint is. I promise you that stoners can date non stoners...i can't believe I have to defend this point lol yall are reaaaally immature. I get that the poster is young and likely impressionable and I hope they speak to a professional and not get their advice from inexperienced people on reddit. Smh

rrickitickitavi t1_jcln9pf wrote on March 17, 2023 at 6:52 PM

There are always unicorns

benzillaaaa t1_jclnjw9 wrote on March 17, 2023 at 6:54 PM

Maybe don't be so definitive in your advice then? Saying stuff like NEVER will make OP feel hopeless.

rrickitickitavi t1_jclolch wrote on March 17, 2023 at 7:01 PM

This relationship is hopeless. Girlfriend clearly hates weed. That's why OP felt compelled to lie. This relationship is unrepairable.

benzillaaaa t1_jclowys wrote on March 17, 2023 at 7:03 PM

I disagree. Good day sir.

rrickitickitavi t1_jclqwn6 wrote on March 17, 2023 at 7:16 PM

I feel like i just got slapped in the face with a glove. I take your leave.

benzillaaaa t1_jcliejh wrote on March 17, 2023 at 6:20 PM

If someone uses weed for medical reasons everyday, should their dating pool only consist of other people who smoke weed? I am baffled by this comment honestly and that you're so headstrong about it. I promise you that it can work out if they're open and honest about it. Become less reliant on it, sure, but they can date who they want to regardless of their habit.