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iaintdum t1_jdcl8ox wrote

Reply to comment by Aware_Material_9985 in TIFU By snooping through my wife's phone by [deleted]

Uhhhh... him looking at her phone shows "a lack of trust"? Did you see any other violations of trust in his post? 'crossed a line'??? gtfooh

What grade are you in?

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Aware_Material_9985 t1_jdcm9c1 wrote

Who the fuck snoops through their wife’s phone? That’s probably the single most personal item any of us own so yes to me that is a clear violation of trust, but hey what would I know I’ve only been married for 6 years

Edit: to add, I’m not saying the use case of your spouse hands you their phone to look at something, I’m saying you take their phone without their knowledge and look through it. That’s some shit parents do to a kid, not what a trusting spouse should do to their partner.

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DanielV14 t1_jdcnfkd wrote

Lol, guys wife is straight up cheating on him and talking shit about him to another man and you’re acting like she’s the victim 😂

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majestrate t1_jdcqmlm wrote

She isn't "the" victim, but she is a victim of her privacy having been invaded.

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Aware_Material_9985 t1_jdconkk wrote

Y’all motherfuckers need to empathize. Dude said their marriage was in a bad place and he went and deliberately looked for shit. There are a million ways to mend that fence that doesn’t involve being a petty ass that steals her phone and snoops through it. That is some jealous ass teenage shit. Maybe it’s me, but if I suspect my wife is cheating I’m not snooping through her personal shit. All that does is make a bad situation worse. For OP because he found out some shit no husband would want to find out and for OPs wife because he violated her trust.

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