[deleted] OP t1_jdcjemq wrote
Reply to comment by iaintdum in TIFU By snooping through my wife's phone by [deleted]
Bro, I know her, and if I gave her an ultimatum, she would by default choose divorce just because I gave her an ultimatum.
iaintdum t1_jdckfm2 wrote
She knows you know that. Call her freaking bluff.
Articulate exactly whats happening and demand a decision.
- what a broken home does to kids
- her and the kids' stability with you vs without you
- facts about this 'grass is greener' guy: at the very least he doesn't respect her marriage now, so what makes her think he'd respect the institution if THEY get married
- ......
If you do nothing, you're marriage is over and you'll suffer. If you give her the ultimatum, there's a chance to fix things. If not, your marriage will end, but you can start healing
AzLibDem t1_jdcrb9b wrote
If she's calling you her ex and taking your kids to do stuff with him, she's already divorcing you. She's just letting pay some bills first.
If your original post is true and accurate, then it's over, she doesn't love you , and you need to start processing that now.
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