Beginning-Ad-9733 t1_je0zwil wrote on March 28, 2023 at 5:07 PM

YOu dodged bullet mate - there is no fixing that kind of person. Despite what you think you have probably, in the longer term, made life easier for everyone. This has nothing to do with your being man enough to take abuse for the rest of your life - it has everything to do with the fact that a narcissist can't be fixed and will completely fuck everything around them in order to control their environment. They are pathologically insecure and very often extremely cruel.

She sounds so unstable you are, no doubt, physically safer but you need to remain emotionally safe from that type of person.

Hope your kids are going to be ok and you hang in there.

nightowl_i t1_je11b0z wrote on March 28, 2023 at 5:16 PM

Wow your wife is a psycho, do you have the custody of kids? It would be really sad if they are living with their crazy mother

nnote t1_je12d1h wrote on March 28, 2023 at 5:22 PM

You were diagnosed with BPD? Within moments of you describing your wife her having BPD immediately came to mind...

henryl046 OP t1_je12yfp wrote on March 28, 2023 at 5:26 PM

Yes I was

nnote t1_je13508 wrote on March 28, 2023 at 5:27 PM

Ya, I think you need a second opinion....

DisappointingPoem t1_je1164g wrote on March 28, 2023 at 5:15 PM

Did you leave the kids with her?

henryl046 OP t1_je11eip wrote on March 28, 2023 at 5:16 PM

She used my diagnosed mental illness to get full custody

TIFU by abandoning my wife and family. I didn’t know what else to do.

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