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Eveningangel t1_j9cvh5p wrote

Ok, I don't know the UK healthcare system, but if you have another session write exactly, without metaphor or vitriol, how that encounter with your mother from start to end made you feel and how afterwards your mother made you, a minor she is responsible for, homeless. Tell your therapist in writing how you were harmed and your safety endangered due to their actions. Mail a copy to their main office and to whatever board of ethics or certification is in your area. Keep one for yourself to give to your next therapist. You now have been traumatized by a therapist and the next one(s) need to know what the stakes are when they invalidate your discomfort and condone your mother's neglectful/abusive behavior.

Glad you are headed to a friend's. Stay safe.

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AdFamiliar6862 OP t1_j9cwirt wrote

Thank you so much this is great advice, yes I’ll have to tell this to my therapist so it’s documented but I don’t want to involve social services or the state because I don’t want to exacerbate the situation or anything like that and just keep the drama to the minimum

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Eveningangel t1_j9cz0um wrote

Ok. But you are now homeless because of that therapist. Whenever you hit your country's legal majority you should report the issue. This could be happening to other clients.

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AdFamiliar6862 OP t1_j9d5sbv wrote

I tried to talk it out further with my therapist before taking anymore action please read update thanks

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