Bard_Bromance_Club t1_j99v9w8 wrote on February 20, 2023 at 10:34 AM

That therapist sounds terrible honestly. Jumping into a joint session with an enabler of something as horrific as that without doing a 1-1 with your mother beforehand to get an understanding and judging if it really would be beneficial to put you both in the same room and work through something like that,

Moist_Board t1_j9bsxox wrote on February 20, 2023 at 7:47 PM

Maybe that's why OP isn't making any progress

GentleWhiteGiant t1_j9ixozn wrote on February 22, 2023 at 8:16 AM

She's not terrible, she totally fucked up from a pro perspective. She changed the setting without consent of her client, she destroyed the trust to her client, and she didn't intervene to protect OP when things where falling apart. She obviously has no insight into the relationship patterns of OP's family.

u/AdFamiliar6862, you did nothing fucking wrong! I adore your strength, and I wish that you find the professional support you need in the future.

AdFamiliar6862 OP t1_j9jhgeu wrote on February 22, 2023 at 12:29 PM

Thanks man, I hope so too!