GsTSaien t1_j7s3xy5 wrote on February 9, 2023 at 12:31 AM

Reply to comment by PennyNoneTheWiser in Tifu by looking at half naked women by [deleted]

Right, so it was a boundary then... because the result of breaking it was it hurt her and made her uncomfortable.

PennyNoneTheWiser t1_j7scrm9 wrote on February 9, 2023 at 1:36 AM

Lol no, a boundary in this instance would be “if you look at naked women on instagram I won’t continue this relationship”. You can’t set boundaries for other people to follow, only for yourself. I don’t know the specifics of this relationship and conversation, I was just trying to explain the difference between boundaries and rules as I understand them.