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aussie_nub t1_j7rj8n9 wrote

>Boundaries are behaviors that involve her

No you're right, you never said that.

Since you swear it's different, please explain how looking at scantily clad women in a sexual manner doesn't involve her, but cheating does.

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redbucket75 t1_j7rl4px wrote

I didn't say that either. Both are rules for a significant other's behavior while in a relationship, neither are boundary issues.

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aussie_nub t1_j7s4vm3 wrote

Which part didn't you say? The bit I quoted from you, or the bit where you suggested that looking at scantily clad women on the internet doesn't count as cheating because the woman isn't involved:

>But you looking at arousing media isn't a "boundary" of hers. Boundaries are behaviors that involve her and make her uncomfortable.

Because you definitely said both.

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redbucket75 t1_j7s6183 wrote

I'm going to stop this conversation here, you won the argument. I don't know what the argument was, but you seem intent on winning it. Good job.

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aussie_nub t1_j7s87fh wrote

It gets like that sometimes. But you contradicted yourself multiple times, so it needed to be pointed out. Have a good day.

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