redbucket75 t1_j7pauy4 wrote
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I didn't say that at all, I was explaining the difference between boundaries and rules.
Most, though not all, romantic relationships have monogamy as a rule.
aussie_nub t1_j7rj8n9 wrote
>Boundaries are behaviors that involve her
No you're right, you never said that.
Since you swear it's different, please explain how looking at scantily clad women in a sexual manner doesn't involve her, but cheating does.
redbucket75 t1_j7rl4px wrote
I didn't say that either. Both are rules for a significant other's behavior while in a relationship, neither are boundary issues.
aussie_nub t1_j7s4vm3 wrote
Which part didn't you say? The bit I quoted from you, or the bit where you suggested that looking at scantily clad women on the internet doesn't count as cheating because the woman isn't involved:
>But you looking at arousing media isn't a "boundary" of hers. Boundaries are behaviors that involve her and make her uncomfortable.
Because you definitely said both.
redbucket75 t1_j7s6183 wrote
I'm going to stop this conversation here, you won the argument. I don't know what the argument was, but you seem intent on winning it. Good job.
aussie_nub t1_j7s87fh wrote
It gets like that sometimes. But you contradicted yourself multiple times, so it needed to be pointed out. Have a good day.
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