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Patient-Quarter-1684 t1_j9s5hyt wrote

Damn, you really did.

You almost ignored the signs and after one date and one lay you then started to get too clingy.

Don't do that. Even if you are soulmates, getting too attached too soon isn't good.

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k_x_sp t1_j9svz6c wrote

I'm 36 and still struggle so much with this

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Eldryanyyy t1_j9t2h76 wrote

This ain’t one date, they’ve known each other for years.

It’s definitely not too clingy to want to be in a relationship with someone you know this well - that sounds pretty normal.

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just--so t1_j9th3wi wrote

>I (23M) have a had a friend (22F) for a few months now. We went to high school together and were friends then. We weren't ever super close then, but we were friendly and hung out sometimes and did some school activities together. One of them was we were in the school play together. We never talked/saw each other after I graduated (she was the year below me).

They're not exactly lifelong besties. They were friendly in high school, lost contact immediately after graduating, and reconnected a few months ago.

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Eldryanyyy t1_j9th85q wrote

When you’ve known each other for years, and been hanging out a few months, it’s not ‘one date and one lay’.

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