The best advice is to move on and grow up.

By your age, this same damn thing has happened to almost every guy on Earth. It’s a funny story. It’s normal.

If you REALLY like her, just drop a line and don’t bring it up at all.

But trying to appear to be an “alpha” is just holding you back in your growth as a man. Get over that and then you’ll be ready for what comes after the HJ