Yeah calling the "sister"/cousin wasn't the fuck-up, the fuck-up was talking to him again in the first place. You broke up with him.and he threatened suicide if you didn't take him back; regardless of the reasons for the breakup and whether it was "justified" (hate the word in this context, nobody has to be with someone who's not making them happy, but you know what I mean) acting like that is deeply manipulative and extremely toxic. People who act like that do not respect your boundaries, or you as a person, and you don't need them in your life.
Nah, unless OP straight up made up the manipulative threat of suicide. The options are either that the ex is toxic, or that they're both toxic. In either scenario they're better off separated.
OkVolume1 t1_j7bjz3b wrote
Yeah. Not buying this..