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BroccoliPrince t1_j8ywb5b wrote

Shit happens. There's dozens of photos online of people who took MySpace selfies in the bathroom with a giant shit still in the toilet, or uploaded Facebook selfies with dildos in the background. Doing embarrassing shit that haunts you for decades is part of the human experience, think yourself lucky it was a snap and you didn't put it on the internet to be immortalised for the world.

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obviouslynotmymain18 OP t1_j8ywfxe wrote

That’s a good point it’s not like she has the image still other than the memory

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BroccoliPrince t1_j8ywv8o wrote

Honestly mate, if your gf says it's fine, odds are she and her friend had a little giggle about the whole thing and have moved on. An apology to the friend if you feel it's warranted might be nice, but this isn't something you need to be mortified about forever. I doubt her friend will be weird about it if you're not weird about it.

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obviouslynotmymain18 OP t1_j8yx1ty wrote

I don’t think I’ll apologize for the sole purpose that her friend doesn’t know that I know (they initially agreed to not tell me what happened) if somehow her friend finds out that I know I’ll absolutely say sorry and have a laugh about it I think

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BroccoliPrince t1_j8yydaa wrote

Aye sounds like a good approach to me. Having a laugh about it is the best way, might even make a friend out of it that way 😂

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s3v3red_cnc t1_j915b3z wrote

Unless she stopped typing so her friend could take a picture of it...

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cranberryshots t1_j91va1d wrote

That's so dumb why would she be okay with her bsf having a picture of her man's dingaling in her phone?

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BirdsBreadqk t1_j909g7y wrote

To cheer you up look up Carolina reaper in tifu it's funny as hell

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contyk t1_j8zq44b wrote

The turdies were the best. Thank you for the memories.

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Anon_be_thy_name t1_j918zzz wrote

I still remember the horror I had of seeing my little sisters FB post on her 18th Birthday.

She took a selfie in her bedroom and on her nightstand was a rather large and exceptionally thick Dildo.

She deleted it after I sent her a text but by then the post had been up for almost 3 hours.

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Jesta83 t1_j91d6b9 wrote

For me it was always weed... I would always catch a pipe or bong in a photo or video.

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thedanyes t1_j937dgc wrote

I mean technically Snapchat IS the Internet just as much as a website is.

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BroccoliPrince t1_j93a5jn wrote

It uses the internet to communicate but Snapchat is not "the internet" in the sense people use the word. It's an app, and one that self-destructs messages unless they're screenshotted, unlike most websites

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thedanyes t1_j93okcr wrote

Ok sure but it's pretty easy to hit the menu + volume down shortcut or whatever on an iPhone that makes a screenshot, no?

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BroccoliPrince t1_j93pthw wrote

You can't screenshot Snapchat without it telling the sender you screenshotted. That's the whole reason people use it to send nudes in the first place.

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LiquidIce55 t1_j95a87b wrote

Is that really supposed to stop people from screenshoting. Not to mention you can run a phone OS in a virtual environment and just snip the image. Alternatively the low tech solution would be to just take a picture of a phone screen with another camera.

You should assume everything you do on the internet/in an app/on networked technology will be seen by the whole world.

Also remember when you use a "free" service you are the product.

Stay safe out there, and for your own mental health do not send anything over the internet that you would not want the whole world to see.

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BroccoliPrince t1_j95c3di wrote

Sir, I did not make snapchat, I did not create this function - nor have I used snapchat in well over five years. Moreover, my nudes are free to view on reddit, if you know where to look, if I did use snapchat to send someone an image they screenshotted and posted, it's nothing the world can't already find.

The point you seem to have missed is that there is a big difference between private communication and a public post. If you share private communication publicly without the knowledge or consent of the other party, particularly if it contains sensitive information, you're what's colloquially known as an asshole. (By the way, leaking someone's nudes without consent is considered a sexual offense in many places, and is punishable by law.)

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LiquidIce55 t1_j977a5w wrote

I am asshole for trying to tell people that what they think is safe might not be. Didn't say that is something I would do just saying it is possible.

GUESS I WILL JUST GO FUCK MYSELF LIKE THE COMPLETE AND TOTAL FUCKING PIECE OF SHIT THAT I AM THEN.

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BroccoliPrince t1_j985cgg wrote

Wow if this is how you talk to people you know offline too, I'd hate to be your friend, because this is like textbook manipulation tactics. My narc mother could've written this. Initially the "you" was genuine, and not directed at you specifically, but in light of this - yeah, you may in fact be an asshole.

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blackjesus t1_j92z0go wrote

Yeah he should probably send a pic of his shit in a toilet to cancel out the dick pic

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