Vamip89 t1_ja7f4al wrote
I almost lost my now wife because we got to the ten year mark and she asked what’s next we got a house a family will you marry me and I said no marriage is something I don’t want. However 4 months prior to this I had been out bought a ring and was waiting on our trip to Disneyland to propose. I managed to talk the doubts out of her and I played a big gamble and it payed off because 2 weeks after that conversation I got down on one knee and she said yes. I never really saw the whole thing with being married parents divorced multiple times etc however I seen how much she wanted it and i do not regret it at all one of the best days of my life
ZeroRozuMagika t1_ja7x037 wrote
At that point I would just say you were thinking about marriage.
Vamip89 t1_ja82qb2 wrote
Took me 10 years to play With the idea of marriage I was dead set on not doing it but with age I changed my mind. Give your relationship time and he might want the same
ZeroRozuMagika t1_ja9ndwy wrote
What changed your mind?
Vamip89 t1_ja9s4ks wrote
I knew that after being together so long and still being really happy why not take the chance and it’s been quite a few years married and I am still happy
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