I have a question: what exactly do you mean by “alpha” status? When two people have sex, they should treat each other as equals.

Edit: rereading the post, you started listing sex positions you wanted to do on the way back to her place? Jeez my guy. An invitation to “hang at my place” is a way of saying you’re down for more intimacy, but you went way overboard and probably freaked her out a bit. She probably didn’t want to have sex with you anymore and gave you a handjob because she was afraid of what might happen otherwise.

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Why do you want her to view you as a dominant figure? Do you mean in general or do you want to be dominant in bed? If it’s the latter, you need to communicate these kind of things with your partner.

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Dude…you practically begged for sex and then came all over your own face. I’m not sure “alpha” is the first thing on her mind

I think you lost your “Alpha” status the second she started laughing at you unfortunately.

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Honestly I think you should’ve communicated that you were a virgin. If it’s with the right person, they’ll understand and it won’t be a big deal. Trying to act dominant and “alpha” when you clearly don’t know what you’re doing is not going to make you look “alpha.”

I hope to god you’re using “alpha status” in a self deprecating manner.

The concept of “alpha male” is absolute bunk but, it most definitely isn’t alpha to lie about your sexual history because you’re ashamed of who you are so that you can get into somebody else’s pants, all to give yourself a facial.

Absolutely none of this is alpha status or energy, in any universe, and if you’re not being ironic, you’re sound like whatever beta males dominate in their minds.

EDIT: since it looks like this was deleted, and just in case, here was the reply I made to OP’s response to me

> If you’re the type to post this online, and not realize that using “alpha male” to describe yourself is a warning sign to others about how much of a “player” you mistakenly think you are, they already know, and are probably laughing about it right now.

> What you should be doing is nutting up and learning to accept yourself. I turned 30 this past December. I’ve only had a single girlfriend, and have only ever had sex once in my life.

> The best thing you can do is stop caring that you’re a virgin, stop caring about being an “alpha male”, and stop caring about what your friends think about you nutting on your face.

> If your friends care about this to the point where they actually think less of you for this, get new friends, and remind them that every girl they kiss is another man’s but they’re savoring.

> Quit being a pathetic alpha, and just be yourself.

It seems it is a lesson from her: don't want only sex or you got no sex. Next time don't try to push that sex thing. It is better for you too. There are plenty situations where you can feel incredible while you stay virgin.

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She didn't want sex atm anyways, hence the HJ

What happened to the post from the other day when you claimed you’d be performing with some korean girls while studying abroad?

Too late

Copy pasta

I read this word for word a few weeks back.

Don’t know what went wrong…it’s directly from page 2, “Andrew Tate’s how to get laid”

I thought it was a deleted scene from 40 year old virgin