tomsaiyuk t1_j9elg6q wrote on February 21, 2023 at 10:27 AM

Reply to comment by Bee-Banana in Tifu by deleting my boyfriends pokemon scarlet saves by Bee-Banana

Once again, you had time to check which switch you had "his" or "yours" you chose not too and one reason you gave was a side effect of your autism.

Foxrex t1_j9f3pmn wrote on February 21, 2023 at 1:47 PM

NT or just judgemental?

What is it like to be perfect?

Bee-Banana OP t1_j9elou2 wrote on February 21, 2023 at 10:30 AM

All I explained was my autism made me become really uncomfortable and frustrated I never said it made me do anything. I fully admitted it was my mistake to make in the post.

Also, our switches have extremely distinct features. My joycons are completely different looking and so is my dock Theyre even connected to different tvs in the same room

IiteraIIy t1_j9h259r wrote on February 21, 2023 at 10:41 PM

I'm sorry you have to deal with this. The way other ND folks seem to be the only ones able to actually understand what you're trying to say while everyone else is just downvote bombing you is really telling.

mbanson t1_j9hemm8 wrote on February 22, 2023 at 12:06 AM

Man I don't have autism and I'm still shocked as to why the hell people are downvoting all of the comments from ND people. Its not like any one of the ND comments is worded in an assholeish way or completely disregarding the bfs feelings or justifying the OPs behaviour. They are simply showing an understanding as to why the OP did what they did.

It's kinda depressing to see how many jokes about having autism are made on reddit, yet how utterly unempathetic or understanding the plurality of users seem to be.

IiteraIIy t1_j9iemrb wrote on February 22, 2023 at 4:41 AM

I honestly have a feeling that if OP had never brought up the fact they were autistic at all, people would be significantly less judgmental. I've seen posts with fuck-ups severely worse than this and no one gives them this hard of a time about their mistake.

RandomActsOfKidneys t1_j9gqouj wrote on February 21, 2023 at 9:29 PM

Ignore them. They won't understand. Mistakes happen when emotions are high and we start to get overloaded. Rational choices aren't made and you did your best to fix the situation. You're doing the best you can and I'm proud of you. 💕

Verone272 t1_j9eoq02 wrote on February 21, 2023 at 11:12 AM

I’m autistic too and I feel you 🥹 We do make lots of clumsy mistakes that’s a fact