Capable-Site-301 t1_ja9i75r wrote on February 27, 2023 at 8:54 PM

Reply to comment by JimmyLocks in TIFU by telling my bf I want a lap dance by hellopoppyskit

I looked at a few. Seems the big issue is someone in the relationship promised not to go to a strip club but kept going but tried to cover it up.

So the issue is lying, which is much more serious than getting a lapdance.

JimmyLocks t1_ja9idt2 wrote on February 27, 2023 at 8:55 PM

And why wouldn’t they want their SO to go to a strip club?

Capable-Site-301 t1_ja9ik4f wrote on February 27, 2023 at 8:56 PM

Same reason they don't want their SO drinking too much or watching porn, or gambling? They personally don't like it, for whatever reason.

Not everyone thinks like that.

EDIT: Read the responses here. Most of them say going to a strip club is not a big issue, but the lying is. And the wife admitted she didn't want her husband going because she's just insecure (which, I suspect, is true of most of the people in this thread downvoting me and acting like going to a strip club is some kind of unpardonable sin, when it's realy just all in good fun.).

https://community.babycenter.com/post/a68981065/would-you-divorce-over-strip-clubs