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DcikHurtzer t1_j9i7mha wrote

I recently went through a cheater situation similar to how you caught him. I simply handed her her phone and asked wtf is this. Seemed to work well. She came clean and I explained to her she had just ended our 20 year marriage.

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fade2black244 t1_j9ir7t2 wrote

I'm curious, what were her reasons?

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DcikHurtzer t1_j9kwfap wrote

There was a lot to it. Id have to post a novel if you want more details or have questions dm me but basically we got together at a young age. People grow and change over the years. She decided she wanted to live differently maybe bored with our life. She had several guys trying to get at her that she worked with. One of them she had befriended. I told her he was also out for more. He eventually got his chance she caved obviously and that was that. Things had been rough between us for a little bit. She wants to get back together but there’s just no way.

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fade2black244 t1_j9ls3zk wrote

Sorry to hear that happened to you, thanks for the explanation. It'll get better my dude.

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