i’ll admit that i don’t live in the best, safest town in the world, but it’s an “everyone knows everyone” type of place and there are areas everyone knows not to go to. as you can probably tell the police are pretty responsive too haha. i don’t necessarily think that trust is an issue, especially with my mom, it’s definitely more a control thing for my grandparents and like some other comments have said i may need to consider some underlying issues they have that may never even be addressed.