People play sims because they like the complexity, if you are willing to go trough with the learning then you can do it.
If learning how it works and how to operate it seems fun to you, then give it a go.
If you just want to go fast and clear the map of all signs of an enemy contact then probably start with something more arcade-y.
VR its just the image output, the game or sim you are using its what gives it the complexity.